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Brian McGonagle
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Monday, August 27 @ 1:30PM
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Linda, Brian & Kevin
at the Center for the Intrepid at the Brooke Army Medical Center in
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Brian is a
2001 graduate of VWHS. He is the son of Kevin & Linda McGonagle
and the husband of Ashley McGonagle. Kevin is a language arts
teacher at VWHS and instructs all of the TV Production classes.
Below are updates the McGonagle family has provided to us. More
updates will be posted as they become available.
Well.......
We spent a wonderful evening last night with five hundred of our closest
friends. THANK YOU so much to Jane Jones, Roger Finger, the American
Legion, the Middlepoint Amvets, the Middlepoint Community Choir and
everyone who stood in line to say hello. It was good to put some faces
with names. It was good to feel the hugs and handshakes that have helped
heal our souls. It was good to share our joy at seeing Brian stand and
take some steps with his new prosthesis. The many gifts we received were
appreciated beyond words. The media has been wonderful and Congressman
Gillmor's office has been particularly supportive.
When Brian first got hurt we set up this "blog" as a way to update
family and friends about his condition. But it seems that it's done more
than that. It made the war real. It wasn't just some anonymous soldier
who got hurt in Iraq; it was someone we knew. It was Brian. We
experienced the horror of war. And it seems that those who followed this
blog experienced it with us. Brian and I decided that was a good thing.
Not because of the attention it brought to Brian. He's not always
comfortable with that. But because of the attention it brought to all of
those who fought before, who fight now, and those will fight in the
future so we all can be free.
Together we decided to end this blog. As we move forward, we ask for
continued prayers. Remember Charlie Company. They are still in Fallujah
and call Brian regularly. They are thrilled with the packages they have
been sent from Brian's family and supporters. The Marine Corps will be
flying Brian and Ashley to Camp Lejeune when Charlie Company comes
home---hopefully in October. It was Brian's goal to be standing when
they arrive and that goal has been accomplished. They are Brian's
brothers. They need to see him. He needs to see them. I'm sure it will
be an emotional reunion.
Give your prayers and support to Cpl. Shane Semer and his family. Shane
graduated with Brian and they entered the Corps at the same time. Shane
leaves for Iraq within the next few days. I know there are many others
from our county who are serving our country. They ALL deserve the love
that Brian has received.
Brian and Ashley will return to San Antonio next week where he will
continue therapy on his left foot while improving his maneuverability
with the prosthesis. Estimates are he will be there for a year. For now
they are off to join Ashley's family for the wedding of Uncle Tony
(Congrats Tony and Christine!) and to spend some quality time with the
Miller/Rodriguez families. They, too, have been with us on this journey
and are rejoicing to see Brian and Ashley back home. Cousins Ben and
Audrey have sent cards, letters, and baseballs to let Brian and Ashley
know they care.
I'm probably dating myself here but words from a Beatles tune comes to
mind........"we got by with a little help from our friends."
Linda
Brian and Ashley have
been granted a brief leave and will be coming home to Van Wert! They
wanted to shake lots of hands and give lots of hugs in appreciation for
the community support they've received. Thanks to Jane Jones from the
Downtown Development Association and Roger Finger from the American
Legion/Middle Point AmVets, there will be a Welcome Home reception for
them on Thursday, August 23rd at 7 p.m. at the American Legion in Van
Wert. EVERYONE is invited to stop by so the entire McGonagle family can
say thank you in person. And I mean the ENTIRE McGonagle family. Brian's
grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. have not seen him since he
was wounded in Iraq. Just about the whole crew will be here to greet he
and Ashley as well as this wonderful community. Brian says he never
would have guessed that corn and soybeans would look so good to him!
Hope to see you August 23rd.
Linda
As the saying
goes, “a picture paints a thousand words”. So we attached this picture
of Kevin and I with Brian at the Center for the Intrepid at the Brooke
Army Medical Center in San Antonio, Texas. YES! Brian is standing on his
own and putting weight on his left foot about six weeks earlier than
initially projected. I’ll admit that my first reaction was not sheer joy
as I hoped it would be. I was too preoccupied with worrying that Brian’s
shattered heel bone would somehow break into pieces right before my
eyes. Brian looked a lot better and had gained significant upper body
strength. Even for a Marine it’s amazing that it’s been just three
months since he was “blown up” as he puts it and he rowed thirteen miles
on Monday morning. He was going back for an afternoon physical therapy
session! He has been measured for his prosthesis and is looking forward
to this milestone in his rehabilitation.
Ashley has made great strides in her ability to navigate the San Antonio
traffic. Her support and encouragement of our son is invaluable to his
recovery. The seven weeks we spent together in Virginia bonded us in a
special way. We’ve figured out that we all got “blown up” in Iraq and
it’s going to take us all some time to heal.
We were in awe of the Center for the Intrepid and the staff we met
there. There have been some sleepless nights around our house about our
son being so far from home at such a vulnerable time in his life. We
left with confidence that he is in good hands. While we still don’t know
how well Brian’s left foot will recover, we do know he is at the right
place for treatment. Kevin was struck by a sign on the wall that said,
“Every day above ground is a good day.” It was time to count blessings.
We met so many heroes there and experienced powerful emotions at seeing
their injuries. We saw wives and children facing incredible struggles. I
will never again be able to get on Yahoo and read about the cost of the
war in terms of dollars. There are more people injured in the war than
live in Van Wert county. There are thousands and thousands of Brians.
But it wasn’t all doom and gloom. The CFI is a new state-of-the-art
facility and was built entirely with private donations as were the two
Fisher houses next to it. Six hundred thousand people (yep—600,000) put
their money where their mouth was. The walkway between the facilities is
paved with messages from contributors intended to inspire the wounded
warriors as they go into rehab. I spent time reading the messages and
taking pictures of some of them. And perhaps for the first time I really
internalized something. These good people were profoundly grateful to
America’s heroes. And one of those heroes has the face of someone I
love. They weren’t just thanking anyone. They were thanking Brian. My
Brian is a hero.
We couldn't leave for
San Antonio without acknowledging the kindness of the congregation at
Trinity United Methodist Church last Sunday. Kevin and I were invited
there for a special prayer time for Brian and Ashley and to receive a
handmade prayer blanket on their behalf. When we got there, we were
stunned at their obvious love for our son and daughter in law to the
extent that they took up a love offering for them. Since April 24th, we
have been on a journey. There have been twists and turns, up and downs.
But ALWAYS we have felt the love and support of Van Wert county. Thank
you.
So we're off to experience the chow at another military base. Kevin
can't wait!!!!!!
Linda
Much to their delight,
Brian and Ashley’s car safely arrived in Texas. It was a relief that
Brian’s new wheelchair fit into the trunk and an even bigger relief that
they no longer have to rely on others for transportation. Brian has lost
enough of his independence! Needless to say, the traffic in San Antonio
will take some getting used to.
Ashley continues to get birthday cards. She actually feels sorry for the
mailroom staff because they’re not accustomed to people getting the
volume of mail she and Brian get! What a compliment to our many friends
who continue to show their support!!!!
Brian sends a special hello to the Easley kids. Your care packages make
him laugh. He hopes you're doing well in summer swimming.
Kevin and I have gotten the suitcases back out of the attic in
preparation for our trip to San Antonio next week. Brian says I'm going
to be surprised at how much stronger his upper body is. I'm going to be
more than surprised. I'm going to be blessed.
Linda
Ashley had a great
23rd birthday thanks to the many people who sent cards and gifts. Each
time I write an update I find myself using the word “overwhelmed” and it
fits the bill again this week. When a person gets more than 100 birthday
cards, two flower arrangements, and a care package from her Grandma,
Uncle Tony, and Aunt Christine, she feels like people have an
understanding of what she is going through! Ashley wanted to especially
thank the Washington School third graders. She is saving their gift for
furniture. When Brian is more mobile, they will move from their
temporary quarters into an apartment and commute to CFI. Since they were
just married in February and Brian deployed soon after, they haven’t
really set up housekeeping yet. They hope to soon begin using the gas
cards people have sent as their car is finally on its way from Virginia.
It’s been a bit rough to always have to rely on someone else for
transportation.
Brian wants to give you all a history lesson this week. He received a
special gift when Nathan from Dell Computers brought him a new laptop
case. Brian’s was covered with Iraqi dust and considered a biohazard.
Nathan, a former Marine, (I know—once a Marine, always a Marine but it’s
the only way I know how to describe it!) brought something extra
special: actual sand from Iwo Jima. Iwo Jima is holy ground to a Marine.
Many of you have probably seen the famous photo depicting five Marines
and a Navy Corpsman raising the flag atop Mount Suribachi during the
Battle of Iwo Jima in World War II. Nathan had visited that historic
site and gave some sand to Brian. I was never aware of the brotherhood
shared by military personnel until Brian got injured.
Van Wert folks should be on the lookout for Lance Corporal Shane Semer.
Shane and Brian graduated from high school together and enlisted in the
Corps at the same time. Shane is coming home to see his family prior to
his deployment to Iraq in August. Any family with a member in Iraq deals
with anxiety. I’m guessing that after what happened to Brian, the stress
level of the Semer clan in even greater. So give Greg, Colt, Serenity
and Kay some extra words of encouragement and keep Shane in your prayers
as he prepares to serve our country.
Brian continues to work hard at his physical and occupational therapy
and was recognized as a BAMC (Brooke Army Medical Center) hero. Having
experienced such a terrible trauma, nights are a bit rough for him.
Kevin and I decided to admit that we were homesick for “the kids” and
they admitted they were just a tad homesick as well. So Mom and Dad have
airline tickets and are heading to San Antonio in two weeks.
Thanks to everyone for their continued prayers and support.
Linda
Independence Day
certainly held a new significance for the McGonagle family this year. We
watched the parade here in Van Wert with a new respect for all the
veterans. Speaking of vets, we just can't say enough for the Amvets in
Middle Point. Not only have they provided support for Brian and our
family, Virgil Dickman from over there called to say that the group has
8 boxes of goodies to send to Brian's company in Iraq! Middle Point
churches were generous in providing postage funds. I couldn't wait to
get on the phone to Brian who was equally excited that his Marine
brothers will feel some love from his home county. It is VERY HOT in
Iraq right now so extra treats will be welcome.
Ashley says it has done nothing but rain in San Antonio and they were
pretty homesick over the 4th. I keep telling her to bottle the rain and
send it back to VW! She says she can see Brian's upper body getting
stronger and that his twice per day workouts are paying off. His biggest
problem with physical therapy is that he is a Marine. So when they say
do ten of something, he wants to do twenty. He thinks he can speed up
his recovery process AND demonstrate that a Marine does indeed adapt and
overcome. Apparently a staff member is now assigned to watch that he
doesn't over do.
They are also learning to cope with something we haven't had to think
about before--handicap accessibility. They had an opportunity to go to
San Antonio's famous River Walk but were disappointed when many of the
popular restaurants couldn't accommodate Brian's wheelchair. I'm sure
this isn't news to alot of people who read this. But it's new to us and
it breaks our hearts to see our kid have to go through this.
Linda
We actually have a bit
of a favor to ask folks. Our daughter in law, Ashley, will have a
birthday on July 10th. Ashley had to leave a job she loved, her family
in Celina, and her friends. She has been at Brian's side for two months.
She will celebrate her birthday away from home in a place where she
hasn't met many people yet. We'd absolutely love for Ashley to get a big
'ol stack of birthday cards so she can feel our love for her.
Lots of folks want to know what Brian's day is like at the Center for
the Intrepid. He went through a lot of different evaluations and is now
beginning a therapy program. He has occupational therapy several times
per week. Brian is right handed and his right elbow is still bothering
him quite a bit. So O/T is teaching him how to cope with that and how to
better maneuver in a wheelchair. (He does it the "Marine way" which
isn't always the safest.) He loves his physical therapy which he has
twice each day. They are strengthening his body to prepare him to walk
with a prosthesis when his stump leg is ready. He's wiggling around his
left foot but but cannot put any weight on it until at least September.
He also spends time with other wounded Marines just talking about what
they've all been through. He still tires out pretty easily and has
multiple doctor appointments. He loves the facility and the staff has
been very supportive.
As for Kevin and I, we are trying to figure out how to return to a
"normal" life after such a traumatic event. Our bodies are here but our
hearts are often in San Antonio. When we came home, the roof of our
house had major wind damage. We own a rental property that the tenants
moved out of. So we've been working hard to get that property ready to
sell. It's time to simplify our lives.
Linda
Yesterday Ashley and
Brian moved into a different room in the Fisher House. If you've already
sent them a card, they will still get it. Future mail should go to:
Fort Sam Houston Fisher Houses
Attn: LCpl McGonagle, Brian K. (or Ashley McGonagle)
Room 415
3623 George C. Beach Road
Fort Sam Houston, TX 78234-5000
Brian and Ashley got
to move into one of the new Fisher Houses today. This great organization
provides housing for military families receiving services from military
medical facilities. Their new address is:
Fort Sam Houston Fisher Houses
Attn: LCpl McGonagle, Brian K.
Room 321
3623 George C. Beach Road
Fort Sam Houston, TX 78234-5000
Since arriving in San
Antonio, Brian and Ashley have had multiple appointments with medical
professionals, caseworkers, and military staff. They say the facility is
fabulous. It just opened a few months ago and was built entirely with
private donations. Brian was happy to get a wheelchair that fits his
long legs better. His hearing test indicated that he still has some loss
in one ear. The stump leg is coming along fine but he cannot bear weight
on the left foot until September. One one hand, it's been very
encouraging for Brian to see people walking with prosthetic limbs. On
the other hand, he realizes that it isn't going to happen quite as fast
as he'd like it to. They are still living in temporary quarters so we do
not have an address yet. All in all they're doing a great job at
"adapting and overcoming".
Linda
Brian and Ashley
arrived safely in San Antonio. They are staying at a TLF--that's
military talk for Temporary Lodging Facility. It's like a hotel room
with a kitchenette and bathroom. Brian said they were getting picked up
at 0730. When I asked what they were going to do, he gave me the
response he always used to give when he was stationed at Lejeune:
"Whatever they tell me to do."
I had to tell Brian more bad news. We received a call from his Command
telling us that two more Combat Engineers from his Company were badly
hurt by IEDs. One is in bad shape having lost both legs and all fingers
from one hand. The injuries to the other Marine were "bad but he's gonna
be ok". You might wonder why we'd be called about this. It's because
members of "Brian's family" have been hurt. That's the brotherhood of
the Marine Corps. We can all identify with the families of the injured
Marines. But think about the Combat Engineers who are still there after
having seen so many of their comrades seriously hurt or killed just
since March 30th. What is it like for them when they have to go outside
the wire (safe zone)? Think about THEIR families. How do the wives go to
work and raise the kids under the constant fear that their phone is
going to ring? I got one of those calls. Trust me. It's terrible.
Linda
On Wednesday, Brian
and Ashley say good bye to the Portsmouth Naval Hospital and fly to the
Center for the Intrepid at the Brooke Army Medical Center in San
Antonio, Texas for the next phase of Brian’s treatment. Kevin and I are
trying not to worry about petite Ashley trying to manage Brian in a
heavy wheelchair on a flight. We’ve been assured that the airlines will
have personnel to assist them but you know how parents are! We’ll
breathe a sigh of relief when we hear they’ve arrived safe and sound.
(All that brave talk I did last week about having to let Brian go isn’t
sitting to well with me today!)
Everyone at Portsmouth did a great job of caring for Brian and seeing
our family through a very terrible time. There’s a few folks, though,
that we called our "A Team" and we wanted to send them a special thanks
as they too read this website.
Admiral Cullison and Staff: Thanks for all the advocating you’ve done
for Brian and for going out of your way to make us feel at home. To
Brian’s dismay, I did indeed hug the Admiral.
Chief Heidi Gallant: You took care of the little things that made our
life so much easier—like getting us a parking pass. You cared!
Chaplain Black: Helped us get through surgery days.
Mr. Colwell from the cafeteria: Thank you for the Marine Bear. Brian is
sorry he missed you. You always took time to ask us how he was even when
your line was long.
Ms. Lake from the cafeteria: Thanks for understanding that after almost
8 weeks in the hospital, Brian was tired of chicken!
Xandra Dyer: Wonderful nurse who encouraged us on days when the pain was
bad.
Tyrone from the Computer Dept.: Helped save my job AND has a wife that
makes the best ribs we’ve ever had.
LtJG. Fisher: We always knew Brian was in good hands when you were
working.
Gunny Melissa: Made a zillion phone calls and emails on Brian’s behalf.
We appreciate all you’ve done for us. The Corps is lucky to have you.
Cathy Podkorny: Thanks for getting Brian to BAMC and your zillion calls!
Dr. Pagenkopf: Thank you for the time you spent trying to save Brian’s
right foot. As hard as it was to face an amputation, we all felt you had
done your best and it was the only viable option we had.
Dr. Hall: Put Brian’s left foot back together piece by
piece---literally.
All the Corpsmen: You are the unsung heroes. It was great to have
Celina’s Jessica Booth helping with Brian.
And last but not least----Ensign Nathan Madrid. He was Brian’s primary
nurse and is now an honorary McGonagle. Nathan, there is nothing we can
say but that we love you! Brian and Ashley wish they could take you to
San Antonio with them.
Linda
We wanted to let
everyone know that after consulting with the staff at the Center for the
Intrepid in San Antonio, it was decided that Brian and Ashley will be
headed there next week--sooner than we thought. We much appreciate all
the mail but suggest that folks discontinue sending anything to them in
Virginia! Once they get established in Texas, we will post their new
address.
The Marine Corps has been awesome in helping us facilitate such a big
move. Ashley will get to fly with Brian to Texas and her car will be
sent there on a truck. This was a tremendous relief to us and allowed
Kevin to accompany me home. (We worried the Admiral wasn't going to let
us leave without re-painting Brian's hospital room after hanging so many
cards up, but we made a quick get away!) We got back to VW late Thursday
evening. It was VERY hard to say good-bye but as I said before---Brian
IS a Marine. Both he and Ashley are "adapting and overcoming". Brian
spent the night with Ashley in the Fisher House so he could practice
maneuvering the wheelchair, etc. in a non hospital environment. Keep in
mind that besides having two bum legs for now, he has a fractured elbow
that is not completely healed. Today they were trying a trip to the
mall. They have a system worked out so Brian can get in and out of the
vehicle, etc. etc. We have an incredible daughter in law as well as a
hero son.
Thank you to the McGonagle cousins for your support! In fact, there are
so many people we want to thank. We've tried to keep up with thank you
notes but it's been overwhelming for us. We just want everyone to know
that we love and appreciate all your kindnesses to us. There aren't
words to describe what we've gone through AND the help we've gotten
along the way.
When we got home, we found that the front half of our roof had sustained
some pretty significant wind damage. When I made the call to our
insurance agent, Jim Rhoades, I jokingly compared myself to the biblical
character, Job. But Jim's response was this: "You can't be Job, Linda.
You didn't lose anything!" Jim is absolutely right!
Kevin and Linda
June 12, 2007
Kevin & Linda -- coming home
Brian has been
having some very strong "phantom pains"
in his stump. This is normal as his body gets used to not
having a foot. Some of the medical folks say that phantom
pain can actually be worse that the pain experienced after
the amputation.
After a lot of thought and prayer, we've made a tough
decision. I'm coming home with the O'Briens on Thursday.
Kevin will stay a few more days to make sure that details on
the transfer to the Center for the Intrepid in San Antonio
are finalized. Then he'll head back to Van Wert as well.
In many ways this is the toughest part of this. We've all
been through so much on this journey. Our lives have
changed forever. How do I simply kiss my son good bye, walk
away, and try to return to normal?
Brian has a wonderful wife who is more than capable of
advocating for him when he needs it. But most of all, Brian
IS a United States Marine. He embodies everything that
means. I figured out that a Marine does not have his Mom
take care of him. I've learned that as a parent you let go
of your children many times. So--I'm going to let go again
so Brian can get his life back.
See ya back in Van Wert.
Linda
June 12, 2007
Meeting Nephew Shane
(picture above)
Uncle Brian got
to meet his new nephew, Shane Quinn
O'Brien yesterday. His mama (Megan McGonagle O'Brien), her
husband, Shawn, and 2 year old Aidan had not seen Brian
since before he deployed. It was pretty emotional at first
but before long Aidan was in his stroller racing Uncle Brian
in his wheelchair. It was a beautiful sight!!
Yesterday Brian
had the final surgery on his left foot. All the bones
are back in place and now it's up to God, Brian's body, and the response
to
lots of physical therapy to determine how good that foot is going to
work.
He can't put any weight on it for 12-16 weeks which will slow his
progress
some. We saw the amputation site on the right today and it wasn't as
traumatizing as I'd worried it might be. It's still causes Brian some
pain
which is normal. Next week the process of fitting him with a prosthesis
will begin. Because Brian was in such good physical shape and is young
and
agile, he should be able to walk on the prothesis with a walker rather
quickly. It amazes us to think that Brian will walk with his prosthetic
leg BEFORE he walks with his real leg!!!
In about 3-4 weeks Brian will be sent to the brand new Center for the
Intrepid at the Brooke Army Medical Center in San Antonio, Texas for
further rehabilitation of both feet. The War in Iraq has overloaded the
military medical system with amputees and burn victims resulting in the
need for the Intrepid. It was built with private donations and has
state-of-the art equipment including a wave pool. We all know how Brian
loves to swim and he still will! We have been blessed along this journey
to find people from Van Wert wherever we've gone. If anyone out there
knows of any Van Wert natives at Brooke Army Med Center, please email us
at
k_mcgonagle@vwcs.net and let us know.
The O'Brien's are arriving on Monday and it will be a happy reunion!
Linda
June 6, 2007
V.I.P. Visit
(pictures posted at top)
Today Brian was
visited by the Secretary of the United
States Navy, Dr. Donald C. Winter. All the military folks
who read this blog understand just how V.I.P. Dr. Winter is.
"Disgusting civilians" like me didn't understand his place
in the chain of command which goes like this: President of
the United States, Secretary of Defense, then Dr. Winter.
The hospital floor was a flurry of activity in anticipation
of the arrival of his entourage. He spent time listening to
the details of the I.E.D. explosion and seemed particularly
interested in the type of Hum Vee Brian was driving. (It
wasn't one of the new, armored ones folks have been reading
about. Brian says he's never even seen one of those!)
Brian used the opportunity to introduce Dr. Winter to Ensign
Nathan Madrid, a Navy nurse who has taken awesome care of
him. I have to admit that meeting Dr. Winter brought out
alot of mixed emotions in me. He profoundly thanked Brian
and our family for his service to our country. It was a
proud moment. I couldn't help but think that this was just
a moment. Brian's right foot is gone forever. Will our
country still be grateful to him years from now? I guess
I'm still learning just how horrible war is.
Linda
Today was the
BEST day we've had since Brian's injury
on April 24th. The bandage was taken off the amputated leg
and the first step towards fitting his prothesis was
completed. It actually hurt less than Brian thought it
would. Brian told the Anesthesia Dept. that he was taking
himself off of some of the pain medication. He wanted his
mind to be more clear and preferred to gut out some of the
pain.
We got another cart full of mail including lots from
St. Marks Church and a goody box from Ashley's friend,
Sarah. Van Wert Middle School Student Jon Lisa organized
the creation of an awesome banner that is hanging in Brian's
room. Jon, you are an incredible young man and VWMS did a
great job. We can't tell you how much it means. We got
bandaids from Patti Cox's first graders. Cute!
Next came some very welcome visitors--representatives
from Wounded Warriors. These tremendous Marines were
wounded themselves in Iraq and now help others deal with the
physical, emotional, financial, etc. etc. etc. issues that
go with injuries such as Brian's. They brought lots of
reassurance about the future and a surprise. Our Marine
liaison is arranging for MEGAN to come here to see her
brother. Megan has not seen Brian since he left for Iraq
and the prospect of seeing the O'Briens actually made Brian
smile. He loves Aidan and has not met his new nephew,
Shane.
AND---As I write this email, Brian is out of the room
in his wheelchair by himself. Ashley, Kevin, and I made
ourselves let him go solo and he smiled AGAIN!
The final surgery will probably be Friday. Yesterday
the prospect of another trip to the O.R. seemed impossible
to cope with. But with the help of God and alot of old and
new friends, we're going to make it.
Linda
Brian got out of the
ICU Step Down unit and is back in his regular room.
Yesterday was a good day with him going outside with Ashley WITHOUT any
hospital staff. Today was rougher as he is having nerve pain at the
amputation site. This is normal but is pretty rough stuff. He just
didn't
feel well enough for any wheelchair rides. Brian is understandably
frustrated. He's tired of being in bed and needs to see himself make
progress and see a vision for his future. We're due for a better
day--hopefully tomorrow.
Linda
Can it really be the
last day of school? We have remarked
many times about how one phone call from Iraq changed us
forever. Kevin, Ashley, and I simply left our lives (and
all those little things that we thought were SO
important)and came to what was REALLY important. Kevin
wants to tell all his students to have a safe summer and
all his teacher buddies should come for a swim at the pond
when we get home. Ashley misses her friends at Taylor Made
Glass--even Chuck! I'm still working from a computer at the
hospital but what I'm missing most are Megan, Shawn, and the
grandsons.
We're hoping Brian gets to leave the ICU Step Down unit
today. He's been in bed so long and his impatience is
starting to show. He got weights to lift in bed and of
course he was told not to overdo it. But of course he's a
Marine and when they said do ten, he did twenty and now his
arms are sore!!!! His final surgery--a minor one on the
left foot--is set for Tuesday.
Michele Cavanaugh from Celina sent Ashley and Brian a
gorgeous picture of them at their wedding. They were just
married on Feb. 10 but it seems like a lifetime ago.
Michele, thanks for an incredible gift that meant more than
you can know.
I'm making Ashley go to the mall today!!!!!
Linda
Brian is pretty groggy
today but not in a lot of pain. This is a relief to
us as well as to him. There is nothing worse than seeing your child
hurt.
He got another cart full of mail today and some surprise visitors--Kevin
and Julie Semer from Van Wert. Brian and their son, Eric are long time
buddies.
Among the packages was a very special gift. The family of fallen Marine
Christian Gurtner sent Brian a Marine quilt. It touched our hearts and
made us cry. Brian has it hanging on the end of his bed. Semper Fi
Wagonrod/Gurtner family.
Kevin, Linda, and Ashley
Brian spent more than
seven hours in surgery on Tuesday having his left
foot wired and screwed back together. The doctors report everything went
well and we just have to hope and pray that no infections develop. They
were not able to complete all the work that needed to be done and so
Brian
will unfortunately have yet another trip back to the O.R. next week for
a
more minor repair. The good news is that his pain is more under control
and he is resting comfortably. Over the next weeks and months he will
have
lots of physical therapy on the left foot which will likely always have
some stiffness to it but will be a functioning limb.
During the amputation surgery last week, the ENT doctors removed the
lesion
on Brian's tongue from where he bit it during the explosion. Another
hurdle overcome!
Tonight someone we don't even know brought us dinner. There have been
alot
of angels on this journey.
Thank you to Carol Taylor and all the kids at Brian's alma mater,
Washington Elementary School, for the cool banner. We're hanging it up
in
his room. One more thing----
Yesterday we were all kind of bummed b/c it was a holiday and we were
all
stuck in the hospital. We had a wonderful surprise when VWHS grad and
classmate of Brian's, Megan McConahy walked through the door. Megan is
in
the Navy and stationed in Portsmouth. She brought Brian a steak and a
Jimmy Buffet cd. They chatted about a Jimmy Buffett party that
apparently
occurred at our house a time Kevin and I weren't home. I'm guessing a
few
other folks reading this remember that one.
Linda
Brian is still in the
ICU Step Down unit but is doing much better after
several days of agonizing pain. Yesterday he asked the nurses to find
him
some arm weights so he can lift weights in bed. He says his upper body
is
going to mush after a month in bed and he wants to start training for
all
the physical rehab he has coming. That says it all about the kind of
determination he has.
I have to admit that I was worried about seeing him for the first time
without his right foot. You can't prepare yourself for something like
that
and I didn't know how I'd react. When the moment finally came I think
all
the prayers that are being said for us carried me through and it was
fine.
Sometimes Brian jokes about getting a Swiss-army foot that has a bunch
of
gadgets on it. Other times you can tell that the reality is difficult
for
him.
We're hoping the swelling has gone down enough in the left foot to allow
surgery on it tomorrow. We dread seeing him go back to the operating
room
but know this is a necessary step to his progress.
Ashley's parents came and treated her to dinner and time out of the
hospital. THANK YOU LARRY AND VICKIE!!!!! Kevin and I saw one of the
most beautiful things we'd ever seen. It was the sight of Rex and Bev
Fortney
walking into the lobby of the Naval Hospital. The McGonagle/Fortney
friendship spans twenty years and they have an aunt/uncle relationship
with
our kids. They treated us to dinner, brought us different clothes from
home, and made us feel normal again. We'd forgotten that it's almost
summer vacation. We've lost a month.
Any of you that are watching TV this weekend should check out CNN. They
have a special on wounded warriors that show all the places Brian was in
such as the hospitals in Iraq and Germany and how he traveled back to
the
U.S. They are also promoting a wonderful organization called Fisher
House.
They build houses at military hospitals so families have a place to
stay.
We're staying in one now and it is tremendous. Fisher House also takes
donations of frequent flier miles and uses them to fly military families
to
see their injured loved ones.
Finally, Brian wants me to tell everyone to remember that Memorial Day
is
more than an extra day off and a cook out. Every time I look at where
his
right foot used to be, I think I finally understand what Memorial Day
really is about.
Linda
Just wanted to take a
minute to update everyone about Brian.
This website has been so helpful. We understand that the
Marine Corps headquarters and Marines in Iraq are accessing
it for Brian news!!!
Brian had some respiratory problems following the surgery
yesterday. He quit breathing. The type of amputation Brian
had is particularly painful and his pain management has to
be balanced with keeping him breathing. He's back in the
intensive care step down unit so he can be closely
monitored. He had a very rough night. Ashley never left
his side. What a tremendously strong young woman!
Keep praying everyone!
Linda
Just wanting to let
everyone know that Brian did just fine in surgery for
the amputation of his right foot and is in the recovery room. It's been
a
very emotional day but this is the beginning of the road back for him.
The
rebuilding of his left foot is scheduled again for Tuesday if the
swelling
is down.
Ashley's parents and our good friends, Rex and Bev Fortney are coming to
see us this weekend. They will be a welcome sight!!!!
Brian wanted me to remind everyone to pray for his Marine brothers. And
with this being Memorial Day weekend, he asks that we all remember Lcpls.
Peterson and Kirk. They were Combat Engineers from Brian's unit who died
the day before Brian's injury.
Semper Fi
Kevin, Linda, and Ashley
The amputation of
Brian's right foot is scheduled for Thursday morning. It
was another tough day. Brian has developed a bed sore and had to get a
special air bed. We've had a lot of folks stop by and express their
concern
and support. We much appreciate them. I know we have a lot to be
grateful
for. Brian is alive, has a good attitude, and will adapt and overcome.
But to just be totally honest, gratitude is not among the many feelings
Kevin and I have tonight. Our son is having his foot cut off tomorrow
(Thursday) and our hearts ache for him.
Linda
Brian was taken into
surgery this morning and the bandages on his left foot
were removed. The foot is still too swollen and they could not yet
operate
on it. The amputation of the right foot is set for this Thursday with
the
surgery on the left likely not occurring until next week.
Yesterday was a pretty emotional day for us. To prepare for his upcoming
surgeries, Brian had to have an epidural inserted into his spine. This
was
extra difficult b/c his spine has a slight curvature and the needle had
to
be inserted multiple times which was very painful. I cannot say enough
for
Brian's positive attitude AND the loving care he gets from Ashley. She
has
barely left his side and is a blessing to our lives. I hope that someday
they get a real honeymoon. They deserve it.
The items that Brian had on him at the time of the explosion also
arrived--including the now famous wallet. I cried when I saw that in his
pocket he had carried a letter from his 15 year old cousin, Lauren. She
had drawn him an Easter card and it was covered with blood. He says he's
keeping it forever. We hope that his other belongings--his computer and
MP3 player will make it back soon. Brian likes his music and it would be
nice to have after all these weeks in bed.
We're hanging in there and appreciate much all the wonderful cards and
letters we've received. The wall of Brian's hospital room is covered
with
them.
Linda
The surgery to rebuild
Brian's left foot has been rescheduled for Tuesday,
May 22nd. It will take about six hours and he will be in considerable
pain
afterwards. The amputation is tentatively set for the end of next week.
What can I say??? It's very tough and we're trying to stay positive.
We got some pictures of the new grandson and he looks like Brian!! We're
not just saying that! Aidan favors the O'Brien side of the family but
his
new little brother is a McGonagle! Can't wait to get home and spoil them
both.
Kevin and Linda
Just wanted to let
everyone know that Brian's surgery on his left foot was cancelled for
Thursday. The surgeons feel there is still too much swelling and the
foot is just not ready yet.
May 15, 2007
Purple Heart Pictures (posted at top) & update on foot
Today Brian had a
minor surgical procedure to clean his wounds and make
sure there is no infection in his feet. It all went fine. Because of his
training as a Marine, he has had some difficulty in the past when coming
out of the anesthesia. To put it mildly, he comes out fighting! But
today that didn't happened and he didn't feel the need to apologize to
everyone for his bad behavior!
His next major surgery will probably be Thursday when they re-build the
left foot. He also has to have a wierd bump taken off his tongue which
was
caused when he bit his tongue during the explosion. Keep the prayers
going
for this surgery to be successful.
We've had some calls from Brian's unit in Iraq. They have pictures of
the
HumVee he was driving and say the seat he was in is totally gone! His
Marine brothers are very upset about the upcoming amputation of Brian's
right foot. Brian promised them that he will make every effort to be at
Camp Lejeune when they return from their deployment in about 8 months.
They have been working around the clock and are exhausted but safe.
I wanted to send a special thank you to my boss, Dugan Klosterman, who
paid
to upgrade the technology at my office so I can access my work from
here.
That kind of loyalty means alot to me and isn't always common in this
old
world!
Other Thanks ......
Our neighbors are helping with the lawn.
Bobby and Lisa for watching the house, the mail, etc.
The Taylors and the Fortneys who help with just about everything
Chuck Rollins--you are AWESOME!
The Prayer Team
And our wonderful families who have been beside us in spirit
I can't possibly list everyone who has helped us out. The folks hear at
the hospital get on the "blog" and keep telling us what an incredible
community Van Wert must be.
Linda
Since Brian moved to
the orthopedic ward, he has a new
address. If you've already sent stuff to the old address,
don't worry--it will get forwarded. The new address is:
LCpl Brian McGonagle
Naval Medical Center Portsmouth
620 John Paul Jones Circle
Ward 4G, Room 38
Portsmouth, VA 23708
May 11, 2007
Painful Reality - Loss of Right Foot
A Moment of Pride/Some
Painful Reality
It is with Brian's permission that we are publicly informing
the many caring folks who read this board of a painful
reality. Brian's left foot can be re-built. Barring
unforeseen complications it will be usable although never
quite "normal". The right foot, however, is damaged beyond
repair. The explosion literally shattered it. He is facing
amputation of the right leg somewhere between the ankle and
knee. He will wear a prosthetic and will eventually walk
again. He faces multiple surgeries and alot of
rehabilitation.
Nothing ever prepares a person to get this kind of news and
there are many emotions that go along with it. Mostly we're
all just trying to be thankful that Brian is alive, has no
brain injuries, and still has a bright future ahead of him.
Yesterday Lt. General Brackman of the United States Marine
Corps awarded Brian the Purple Heart (we'll send pictures
later.) I don't think I ever really understood words like
patriotism, heroism, and the sacrifice of self on behalf of
our country--until yesterday. I saw the veterans marching
in the Peony Parade but I never connected the dots about
what their sacrifice meant to me as an American. I would
guess I'm not unique in that.
Brian has asked me to tell you that he WILL "adapt and
overcome". And he hopes that his experience and the
publicity his situation has gotten will help
others--especially young people--realize that freedom has
it's price. He wants everyone to know that War is Real.
It's not a video game or a cool movie. Young guys (and
girls) are putting their lives on the line every day so
people in Van Wert can hang out and live their lives.
Keep us in your prayers during this tough time. No exact
surgery date is set but it will occur fairly soon.
Keep the cards coming. They cheer us up and put smiles on
our faces.
Linda
Today Brian got a HUGE
bundle of mail and we have had so much fun looking at all of it. THANK
YOU for all the good wishes and prayers. Keep them coming. Brian is in a
lot of pain today from yesterday's surgery and prayers will surely help.
Linda
Brian is back from
surgery and the news is encouraging. His arm is out of the big cast and
into an ace bandage kind of thing. (Sorry--I know that's not medically
correct terminology!) He now has the use of both hands which is awesome
progress. Physical therapy on the elbow will start soon.
There was no sign of infection in the feet. The left looked better than
expected but the right is in bad shape. The doctor is
communicating with colleagues in other states for their input.
Another positive is that starting tomorrow we can wheel him around the
hospital with both feet up. This Marine has been flat on his back for
two weeks so this is
big news in our world. My mom and Ashley's sisters are on their way to
see us which is very welcome news. We are emotionally and physically
exhausted but so blessed that right now Brian is teasing his wife who is
threatening to smack him with a pillow!!!!!!! It's funny how an
experience like this teaches you to appreciate the simple things in
life.
Linda
Brian developed
phlebitis in his good arm yesterday due to
the length and strength of the antibiotics. He was in alot
of pain and it was really hard on him and us because of all
the pain. They've made some adjustments and it looks better
today.
He's on his way to surgery but he wanted me to update the
site and tell everyone that on Thursday the Lt. General is
personally coming to the hospital to award him the Purple
Heart. He says that all the military people reading this
site will know that this guy is the second highest person in
the Marine Corps and this is HUGE. We are all so proud and
wish all our loved ones and friends could be here to see
this. But don't worry, we'll bore you with the pictures
when we get home!!!
Linda
Today Brian was moved
from the ICU Step Down Unit onto the
regular orthopedic floor here at the Naval Hospital at
Portsmouth, Virginia. The folks have been so awesome to all
of us.
Brian will have another surgery on his feet tomorrow. The
doctors here are having conferences with surgeons across the
country about the best course of treatment.
Today we are expecting a visit from Brian's Commanding
Officer who will stop by on his way home from the funerals
of Brian's fellow Marines.
Brian says to say hello to everyone and as always to
remember his brothers still serving in Iraq.
The McGonagles
Today we got the good
news that Brian does not have any
weird bacteria in his body from Iraq!!!
Apparently some of the military personnel returning to the
states have had health problems
from being exposed to new germs.
Brian's next surgery will be on Tuesday. Until then he is
"chilling out" in his hospital bed
trying not to be too bored. He is telling me to write that
he is so appreciative of all the
support back home but to PLEASE remember those who are still
fighting to complete
the mission at hand.
We're hanging in there.
Linda
May 3, 2007
Brian's Update & Address
We've learned that if
you try to go for days without eating or sleeping, you don't do so well
after awhile. Good thing we're not Marines.
We are now at the Portsmouth Naval Medical Hospital where they have
doctors who specialize in trauma injuries to the feet. The neck wound is
healing fine. Brian is lucky to be alive as it is so close to the
carotid artery. He is being kept in isolation to make sure he did not
bring back any bacteria specific to Iraq. Apparently there have been
some problems with that but not so far with Brian.
His broken arm was set today and is expected to be fine. His feet are
seriously injured.
Please remember to pray for us AND other military families AND for
Brian's brothers who are still serving in Iraq. Tomorrow
Brian will be told that another one has died. This is the horror of war,
Van Wert.
Here is his address:
Naval Medical Center
620 John Paul Jones Circle
Attn: LCPL McGonagle, Brian K
Bldg 2, 3rd Floor, Step Down Unit
Portsmouth, VA 23708-2197
May 1, 2007
Transferred to Naval Hospital
Due to the severity of
Brian's injuries, he is being transferred to the Naval Hospital in
Portsmouth, Virginia. More information will be posted when it is
known about the details.
How can you feel so
many emotions in one day?
We were excited to see Brian and meet his commanders. We
were proud to hear them use the word "hero" when talking
about him. Brian will be awarded the Purple Heart.
However, the injuries to his feet are too serious and the
Camp Lejeune Hospital cannot care for him. So we are going
to be sent somewhere else. It kills us to see him in so much
pain.
Please keep us in your prayers.
Kevin, Linda, and Ashley
We are heading out to
meet Brian who should be back in the States tomorrow night. We will let
you all know where cards, etc. can be sent. There is still a bit of
confusion as to which hospital he is going to.
Brian sounded in great spirits last night. He just wants to see his
family. We've got to admit---we're pretty exhausted and stressed out at
this point. We'll feel better once we're on the road.
And by the way, Kevin publicly apologizes for the detention he gave
Keith Wenning back in the seventh grade. And when Keith comes back to
the States, he is coming to Kevin's new studio and talk as much as he
wants to.
Kevin, Linda, and Ashley
Today is a better day!
Our new grandson, Shane, is perfect. We got to see his big brother,
Aidan, and Megan is also doing just fine. She got to talk to Brian on
the phone which sure helped her stress level. Brian is still in Germany
but is feeling alot better after his last surgery. He now has what is a
big luxury to him----a phone with lots of minutes to call long distance.
Since he is bedfast, he is calling everyone he knows. The only problem
is he forgets he is in a different time zone and his calls come at like
4 a.m. So I'll apologize to all his Van Wert buddies who are getting
woke up in the middle of the night. And guess what else??? They found
his wallet. Ashley says she is going to see if it can be surgically
attached to him! We know he has multiple surgeries to come--especially
on his feet. The current plan is for him to be flown out of Germany
tomorrow where he'll land at Andrews Air Force Base. He'll spend an
undetermined about of time at Bethesda and then on to the Naval Hospital
at Camp LeJeune. Lots of factors go into this plan including how Brian
is doing and what other military personnel need medical attention. Brian
was able to tell us more details about the IED blast and one thing
became very clear to us. He is alive today thanks to God AND thanks to
the excellent training he and his Marine brothers received from the
United States Marine Corps. I cannot wait to throw my arms around the
instructors at the Marine Corps School of Engineering, Charlie Company's
Combat Engineer Batallion, and any other Marine who taught my son what
to do. The same goes for the medic who was right there to help Brian
after the explosion. We want to make this point very clear: The
McGonagle family has nothing but good things to say about the United
States Marine Corps. Van Wert High School graduate Keith Wenning has
been a godsend. Brian says he must be really important because whenever
he says something should happen, it does. Keith has been in phone
contact with us and sent the picture that is attached to this
communication. We have some other pictures of Brian's injuries that made
us cry but we are blessed. Brian is coming home. Other people we need to
thank----Elida Motor Sales. Thanks for the help with Ashley's car.
Ashley's Aunt Tammy is awesome for getting yellow ribbons in honor of
Brian. St. Mark's Lutheran Church and the Van Wert City Schools staff
cannot be thanked enough. Thank you, Dugan! And finally, thank you to
our new Van Wert Marine recruiter, Mike Wenzel. We wish you good luck in
your new position.
Semper Fi, Linda
April 27, 2007
Today's 3rd Update - A new nephew!
Brian's new nephew,
Shane Quinn O'Brien made a safe arrival into this world. Mother and baby
are doing fine. He weighed 7 pounds 6 oz. We are on our way to Dayton to
see him.
Grandpa Kevin, Grandma Linda, and Aunt Ashley
April 27, 2007
Today's 2nd update - A Setback
We have had a setback.
Brian cannot be transported back to the states as he had to have another
surgery on his feet. We're trying to stay positive.
Can you believe this?? Van Wert High School graduate Keith Wenning
serves with the military and is in Germany with Brian. When Brian woke
up from the surgery, the pictures posted on the website had been printed
out and put by his bedside. THANK YOU!!! We cried about that. Keith--we
don't know how to contact you but we take alot of comfort in knowing
someone from Brian's hometown is there.
Brian said he was feeling a little better today and asked Ashley if she
liked her men with scars.
Soon we are heading to Dayton to meet Brian's new nephew.
Kevin, Linda and Ashley
Thank you to Gary
Herman and his students at VWHS. This website is going to help out a
great deal.
We are trying to be patient but there has been alot of the typical
communication issues and we still don't know where Brian is being taken.
We've been assured he is stable enough to be transported back to the
states and we just want to see him ASAP. We know there are alot of
wounded and the military personnel working with us are doing their best.
Many of you have asked about Brian's wife, Ashley. Ashley and Brian were
long-time sweethearts. Ashley is a graduate of Celina High School and
they met while both were attending Wright State Lake Campus. Her parents
are Larry and Victoria Miller of Celina. Brian and Ashley were married
on February 10th of this year prior to his deployment. They never got a
honeymoon. I don't think a trip to a military hospital is exactly what
Ash had in mind.
We heard that students at VWHS are wearing ribbons in support of Brian.
That's awesome!
There are two extra special groups of people that we had to take time
out to thank. We will always be indebted to.....
1. Chuck Schreiber and the staff of Taylor Made Glass in Payne where
Ashley works. They too wore ribbons in support of Brian and have
promised to hold Ashley's job while she is gone. That is a huge burden
off her mind. They have showed her incredible caring and concern.
2. The Marines that saved Brian's life. There are no words for these
heroes. One cut off Brian's boots. Another stopped the bleeding in his
neck. His First Sargent carried Brian on his back to safety and was the
one to call me from Iraq. He stayed with Brian until the first surgery.
It is our understanding that all of them are back on the job. PLEASE
remember to pray for them as well as for us.
Semper Fi,
Linda, Kevin & Ashley
Brian has been
transported out of Iraq and is in a medical facility in
Germany. The Marine Corps is in the process of determining
whether Brian's medical needs can best be met at Bethesda
Naval Medical Center in Maryland or the Naval Hospital at Camp
Lejeune, North Carolina where Brian's home base is. Once we
have word as to where and when Brian will be transported, we
plan to start driving with the hope that we will get there
before he does.
Ashley
was able to talk with a doctor today and we are much
encouraged. The neck wound is doing fine. Brian's right arm
is broken in two places but that is not a major hurdle. While
he is not looking at losing a foot at this time, he does have
major medical issues with both feet that will have to be dealt
with once he is back in the States. Imagine the force of the
blast coming right at your feet!
We talked to Brian again
today. He seems groggy but was worried about not knowing
where his wallet was. Anyone that knows Brian knows that
losing his wallet is a regular thing with him. But I guess
we can't get on him about it this time!!!!
Pray for Megan and that our new
grandson makes a safe arrival into the world tomorrow!
Kevin, Linda, and Ashley
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Dear Friends:
Few of you can imagine the shock we received on Tuesday afternoon when
we were informed by the United States Marine Corps that our son/husband,
Lance Corporal Brian McGonagle suffered serious injuries while serving
our country in Iraq. Because the past few days have been particularly
devastating to our military forces, we have been unable to speak with
anyone with direct knowledge of the extent of Brian’s injuries. We
have, however, spoken with Brian several times. He is coherent and was
scheduled to be transported out of Iraq to a medical facility in Germany
at 9 p.m. this evening our time where he will receive further
evaluation. If he is determined to be stable enough, he will be flown
to the States—probably Bethesda Naval Medical Center.
We know that Brian received a major fragment wound to his neck that has
been surgically repaired. He has a broken arm and both feet received
major fragmentation. The doctors initially told Brian that he might
lose a portion of one of his legs. After two additional surgeries,
however, Brian was told that there is an excellent chance that he will
not lose a limb. It is our understanding we will need to wait and see
how the healing process goes before we are out of the woods on this.
We love and appreciate all the people who have contacted us about
Brian. Since we cannot possibly respond to each one of you, we
appreciate the help of Gary Herman and Van Wert High School in allowing
the use of their web page to post updates as we get them. Here are
answers to some of the questions that seem to be out there:
1.
What happened---Brian was the
driver of a HumVee that came upon an improvised explosive device (IED).
Three other Marines were in the vehicle. They received minor injuries
and have been returned to duty. The day before Brian’s accident, a
corporal from his unit was killed when the Hum Vee he was in also hit an
IED. Two Marines were hurt in that incident. Brian was not in that
vehicle but was in a vehicle behind it and witnessed the attack.
2.
How long has Brian been in
Iraq? Three weeks
3.
How can we write to him? Until
Brian is transported to the U.S., you really can’t.
4.
When will the family get to see
him? We have to wait until we are told whether Brian will be staying in
Germany or brought on to Bethesda. Once that is determined, the Corps
will assist us in making travel arrangements. We cannot wait to throw
our arms around him—gently, of course! YES—the waiting is terrible for
us. There is still a lot we don’t know.
5.
Re: Megan O’Brien—Brian’s
sister. Megan is scheduled to deliver a healthy nephew for Brian on
Friday at 9 a.m. in Dayton. Please pray for her too. The stress of
this happening to Brian is very tough on her when she can’t join us in
going to him. We are hoping to be able to see our new grandson before
we leave to meet Brian.
6.
What do we need: Prayers. Please
pray for Brian and all of our family. But don’t stop there. Pray for
the family of Corporal Peterson. Pray for those members of Charlie
Company who witnessed two of their “brothers” fall victim to the
insurgents but are back on the job. Pray for military families
everywhere and the anxiety they have to cope with every day. Pray for
the almost 4000 families who received the call we DIDN’T receive—that
their loved one wasn’t coming home. And pray for our country’s leaders
to make wise decisions about the future of Iraq.
The Marine Corps taught Brian a
motto that he has often quoted when faced with
a challenge, “Adapt and Overcome”. We have confidence that Brian will
apply this motto to his own recovery. We know that many Van Wert High
School students heard Brian speak just before he left and are taking
this tragedy very hard. We love you for your care and concern for
Brian. He would tell you to “adapt and overcome”. He joined the Corps
because he wanted to be the “best of the best”. He would be really
proud if his experience inspired you to do the same.
Keep checking back for further information.
Semper
Fidelis,
(Always Faithful)
Kevin, Linda,
and Ashley McGonagle
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